I’m Ruby, Evolutionary Astrologer, Spiritual Life Coach and Modern Mystic. I offer guidance and support to all those who may be stuck on their path; or who are simply looking to grow and evolve. I help those who are feeling lost, confused, conflicted, frustrated, stuck, or detached. A gentle guide back after a detour off the path of Light. My approach is grounded and practical, but also highly spiritual and creative.
We need both approaches to walk a balanced path through life.
As a child I was always asking the bigger questions about life, though I came from a family that suppressed and silenced me. From the minute I could hold a pen I asked those questions on paper and became deeply observant of the world around me. I was rebellious and strong willed.
When I was 8 years old I entered a school singing competition and sung ‘What if God was one of us’, and by the time I was in my early teens I took myself off to the local church to attend service. I did this in secret because my parents abhorred religion. Intuitively I sensed a greater meaning to life.
My Mystical Musings
By the time I was 30, I had developed a regular meditation practise and started attending spiritual courses. Insatiable, I devoured every spiritual book I could find and spent hours and hours ‘working’ on myself. I tried EFT Tapping, visualisation, manifesting, energy exercises, homeopathy, CBT, binaural beats and much more. All I wanted was to heal, evolve and find answers to who we really are. After five years of continuous self development work I finally found my answers, and I am still finding them.
I had been having unusual spiritual experiences involving light and colours and vibrations and in one intense moment I was taken out of my body to meet Spirit – Eye to Eye. In a moment I saw past lives play out before me, until the Eye of Spirit opened upon me and flooded me with Divine Light, Love, Wisdom and Truth. It was an act of grace. I saw that Spirit was me, and I was Spirit and I felt the Divine Truth that resided at the core of our Universe.
It changed me forever, and yet I returned to my life to continue my lessons. Since that union, I gained the ability to leave my body at will and go astral travelling, where I continued my evolution on the next plane. Today I am still moving in and out of my human and spirit self, grappling with earthly lessons and exploring other realms to understand them on a deeper level.
I am an empath, a clairvoyant, and a mystic and it is my purpose here to tune into higher dimensions and bring down wisdom teachings to the earthly plane in a way that they can be embodied and grounded. Astrology, Authorship and Mentoring are some of the tools I use to do this.
My Shadow Side
I was raised in an abusive family. My parents taught me all I needed to know about the darkness. The themes of my upbringing were control, violence, suppression and deception. My teens and early twenties were plagued by mental health illness, suicidal thoughts and PTSD attacks. My saving grace has been the gift of endurance – I never gave up. I am an Old Soul, with the sort of warrior courage that only comes from adversity and perhaps an Aries Moon!
My childhood prepared me to endure, to keep going, to survive; through all the times I felt like giving up. I didn’t give up. And now I can use that experience to help others face their pain and struggles.
Sometimes bravely, sometimes cautiously, I have walked the path of pain intensely, with great determination. I know what terror, despair, hopelessness and loneliness feels like. My natal Pluto, the planet of death and destruction is at critical 29 degrees. It’s also trine my Sun and conjunct Saturn in the 9th house. If you’re an astrologer you will know what that means – yikes! I came in with that placement because my Soul knew I could handle it. But Pluto is also about rebirth and transformation, and I can honestly say I have transformed!
Today, I have overcome so much of my personal story and history. Now, I live a life of love, joy, purpose and spiritual connection. Of course, I am human, so I still struggle in my own ways at times. But I have a toolbox so big, and a faith so strong that these moments of suffering provide wisdom not pain. I have seen the many faces of what is ultimately a separation from God/Source/Spirit. I have been in your shoes and can help you to make the incredible journey from darkness to Light. Or rather, to find the middle way!
It’s only when we embrace our shadows, accepting all of ourselves, that we can find our way to the Light. We are both light and dark, both spirit and human. The Universe is ever evolving towards perfect equilibrium, and we can help by finding equilibrium within ourselves.
It is my absolute honour and privilege to walk this path with you.
Diploma in Spiritual Life Coaching with the Jo Houghton Soul Academy
Primary Certificate in Astrology with White Eagle School of Astrology
Apprenticeship Degree in Evolutionary Astrology with renowned Steven Forrest
Diploma in Theosophy with The Theosophical Society England
Qualified Mental Health First Aider with MHFA
Currently deepening my studies with the amazing Forrest Center for Evolutionary Astrology